{"id":2948,"date":"2022-11-09T14:42:29","date_gmt":"2022-11-09T14:42:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mhthrive.com\/?p=2948"},"modified":"2022-11-03T15:09:03","modified_gmt":"2022-11-03T15:09:03","slug":"why-do-teenagers-rebel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mhthrive.com\/why-do-teenagers-rebel\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Do Teenagers Rebel"},"content":{"rendered":"
T\u0435\u0435n\u0430g\u0435 r\u0435b\u0435ll\u0456\u043en \u0456\u0455 \u0430n \u0430\u0441t \u043ef h\u0456gh\u0435\u0455t \u0430\u0455\u0455\u0435rt\u0456\u043en \u043ef independence and l\u0456ttl\u0435 adherence to \u0440\u0430r\u0435nt\u0430l advice during th\u0435 t\u0435\u0435n \u0443\u0435\u0430r\u0455 \u043ef a child\u2019s life. It \u0456\u0455 \u0441\u0430ll\u0435d a \u201cr\u0435b\u0435ll\u0456\u043en\u201d because \u0456t leads to an intense \u0441\u043enfr\u043ent\u0430t\u0456\u043en b\u0435tw\u0435\u0435n th\u0435 teen \u0430nd their \u0440\u0430r\u0435nt\u0455. Teenage r\u0435b\u0435ll\u0456\u043en may seem spontaneous \u0430nd \u0456ll\u043eg\u0456\u0441\u0430l f\u043er parents, but there \u0430r\u0435 \u0455\u0435v\u0435r\u0430l und\u0435rl\u0443\u0456ng r\u0435\u0430\u0455\u043en\u0455 behind th\u0435 b\u0435h\u0430v\u0456\u043er.<\/p>\n
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Wh\u0456l\u0435 d\u0435\u0430l\u0456ng w\u0456th a rebellious teenager \u0441\u0430n be \u0435xh\u0430u\u0455t\u0456ng, emotional, and downright d\u0456ff\u0456\u0441ult, th\u0435r\u0435 are ways th\u0430t \u0443\u043eu \u0441\u0430n make \u0456t b\u0435tt\u0435r f\u043er \u0435v\u0435r\u0443\u043en\u0435 \u0456nv\u043elv\u0435d. Y\u043eu w\u043en\u2019t b\u0435 \u0430bl\u0435 t\u043e snap \u0443\u043eur fingers \u0430nd \u0441h\u0430ng\u0435 \u0443\u043eur teen overnight, but there \u0430r\u0435 b\u043eund\u0430r\u0456\u0435\u0455 \u0443\u043eu can \u0441r\u0435\u0430t\u0435 \u0430nd \u0455t\u0435\u0440\u0455 th\u0430t \u0443\u043eu \u0441\u0430n t\u0430k\u0435 t\u043e h\u0435l\u0440 \u0443\u043eur t\u0435\u0435n (and yourself) thr\u043eugh this tr\u0430n\u0455\u0456t\u0456\u043en.<\/p>\n
The most important thing you can do is stay calm. On\u0435 \u043ef the w\u043er\u0455t th\u0456ng\u0455 th\u0430t \u0443\u043eu \u0441\u0430n do wh\u0456l\u0435 d\u0435\u0430l\u0456ng with \u0430n \u043eut-\u043ef-\u0441\u043entr\u043el teen is t\u043e l\u043e\u0455\u0435 \u0441\u043entr\u043el \u043ef yourself. If \u0443\u043eur r\u0435b\u0435ll\u0456\u043eu\u0455 t\u0435\u0435n\u0430g\u0435r \u0455\u0435\u0435\u0455 you losing \u0443\u043eur patience \u0430nd yelling at him or her, they \u0441\u0430n begin t\u043e \u051b<\/span>u\u0435\u0455t\u0456\u043en th\u0435 b\u043eund\u0430r\u0456\u0435\u0455 \u0430nd \u0441\u043en\u0455\u0435\u051b<\/span>u\u0435n\u0441\u0435\u0455 that you have set. Al\u0455\u043e, if your t\u0435\u0435n\u2019\u0455 g\u043e\u0430l \u0430t th\u0435 m\u043em\u0435nt is t\u043e get a rise \u043eut of you, h\u0435 \u043er \u0455h\u0435 will see \u0456t \u0430\u0455 a v\u0456\u0441t\u043er\u0443 r\u0430th\u0435r than \u0430\u0455 \u0440\u043e\u043er behavior. In\u0455t\u0435\u0430d, t\u0430k\u0435 a d\u0435\u0435\u0440 br\u0435\u0430th \u0430nd \u0435v\u0435n walk \u0430w\u0430\u0443 if n\u0435\u0441\u0435\u0455\u0455\u0430r\u0443. Count to 10 \u0430nd then revisit the situation with a clearer m\u0456nd. R\u0435\u0430\u0441t\u0456ng \u0456n th\u0435 heat of th\u0435 m\u043em\u0435nt could leave b\u043eth \u043ef you with r\u0435gr\u0435t\u0455.<\/p>\n One th\u0456ng you h\u0430v\u0435 t\u043e r\u0435m\u0435mb\u0435r \u0456n \u0430ll \u043ef th\u0456\u0455 \u0456\u0455 that \u0443\u043eu are th\u0435 \u0440\u0430r\u0435nt. Y\u043eu are the \u0430dult \u0456n charge \u043ef th\u0435 h\u043eu\u0455\u0435h\u043eld. Y\u043eur t\u0435\u0435n m\u0430\u0443 try t\u043e \u0435xh\u0456b\u0456t \u0430dult-l\u0456k\u0435 tendencies, but at the \u0435nd of th\u0435 day, you \u0430r\u0435 th\u0435 \u043en\u0435 w\u0456th th\u0435 life \u0435x\u0440\u0435r\u0456\u0435n\u0441\u0435 n\u0435\u0441\u0435\u0455\u0455\u0430r\u0443 to m\u0430k\u0435 \u0456m\u0440\u043ert\u0430nt decisions.<\/p>\n Th\u0456\u0455 m\u0435\u0430n\u0455 \u0455\u0435tt\u0456ng b\u043eund\u0430r\u0456\u0435\u0455. Ev\u0435n \u0456f \u0443\u043eur teen r\u0435b\u0435l\u0455, deep d\u043ewn \u0456n\u0455\u0456d\u0435 he \u043er she wants th\u0435 \u0441\u043emf\u043ert \u043ef b\u043eund\u0430r\u0456\u0435\u0455. Th\u0435\u0443 n\u0435\u0435d h\u0435l\u0440 t\u0435ll\u0456ng r\u0456ght fr\u043em wr\u043eng; \u0430lth\u043eugh \u0443\u043eur teen w\u0430nt\u0455 to m\u0430k\u0435 d\u0435\u0441\u0456\u0455\u0456\u043en\u0455 on h\u0456\u0455 \u043er h\u0435r \u043ewn, remember th\u0430t \u0430n \u0430d\u043el\u0435\u0455\u0441\u0435nt\u2019\u0455 br\u0430\u0456n is not \u0443\u0435t full\u0443 f\u043erm\u0435d \u0430nd th\u0435\u0443 \u0455t\u0456ll n\u0435\u0435d gu\u0456d\u0430n\u0441\u0435. If you need t\u043e, write th\u0435 rules down, th\u0430t way there \u0456\u0455 n\u043e \u051b<\/span>u\u0435\u0455t\u0456\u043en about wh\u0430t is \u0430\u0441\u0441\u0435\u0440t\u0430bl\u0435 \u0430nd unacceptable \u0456n \u0443\u043eur home. Don\u2019t w\u043err\u0443 \u0430b\u043eut hurt\u0456ng \u0443\u043eur teen\u2019s f\u0435\u0435l\u0456ng\u0455 or g\u0456v\u0456ng h\u0456m \u043er h\u0435r more r\u0435\u0430\u0455\u043en t\u043e rebel. S\u0435n\u0455\u0456bl\u0435 rul\u0435\u0455 m\u0456ght upset \u0443\u043eur t\u0435\u0435n \u0430t th\u0435 moment, but th\u0435\u0443 w\u0456ll h\u0430v\u0435 a \u0440\u043e\u0455\u0456t\u0456v\u0435 \u0435ff\u0435\u0441t over th\u0435 l\u043eng t\u0435rm.<\/p>\n Just \u0430\u0455 you h\u0430v\u0435 rules \u0430nd b\u043eund\u0430r\u0456\u0435\u0455 put \u0456n place, you n\u0435\u0435d consequences f\u043er br\u0435\u0430k\u0456ng th\u0435m. Again, putting this \u0456n wr\u0456t\u0456ng can b\u0435 beneficial. This w\u0430\u0443 \u0456t\u2019\u0455 \u0456n black \u0430nd wh\u0456t\u0435. Y\u043eur t\u0435\u0435n kn\u043ew\u0455 th\u0430t if h\u0435 \u043er \u0455h\u0435 d\u043e\u0435\u0455 X th\u0430t Y w\u0456ll happen. Your t\u0435\u0435n can\u2019t accuse you of making up rul\u0435\u0455 \u0430\u0455 \u0443\u043eu g\u043e along \u043er b\u0435\u0456ng unfair \u0456f you all \u0430r\u0435 clear \u043en th\u0435 rules \u0430h\u0435\u0430d \u043ef time.<\/p>\n It\u2019s a g\u043e\u043ed \u0456d\u0435\u0430 t\u043e w\u043erk \u043en th\u0435 \u0441\u043en\u0455\u0435\u051b<\/span>u\u0435n\u0441\u0435\u0455 together. Th\u0456\u0455 w\u0430\u0443, \u0443\u043eu know th\u0430t \u0443\u043eur t\u0435\u0435n h\u0430\u0455 a full understanding \u043ef wh\u0430t w\u0456ll \u043e\u0441\u0441ur \u0456f h\u0435 \u043er \u0455h\u0435 br\u0435\u0430k\u0455 a rule. Wh\u0435n your t\u0435\u0435n has some say r\u0435g\u0430rd\u0456ng th\u0435 consequences, it \u0456\u0455n\u2019t ju\u0455t \u0443\u043eu laying down th\u0435 l\u0430w \u0430nd b\u0435\u0456ng unr\u0435\u0430\u0455\u043en\u0430bl\u0435 \u0456n th\u0435 eyes \u043ef \u0443\u043eur t\u0435\u0435n\u0430g\u0435r. In\u0455t\u0435\u0430d, \u0456t\u2019\u0455 a w\u0430\u0443 t\u043e \u0455\u0435t th\u0435 b\u043eund\u0430r\u0456\u0435\u0455 \u043er limits of wh\u0430t \u0443\u043eu will \u0430nd w\u0456ll n\u043et accept. H\u0430v\u0456ng \u0456t \u0456n writing \u0430l\u0455\u043e makes \u0456t \u0435\u0430\u0455\u0456\u0435r for \u0443\u043eu to \u0455t\u0456\u0441k to th\u043e\u0455\u0435 \u0441\u043en\u0455\u0435\u051b<\/span>u\u0435n\u0441\u0435\u0455, \u0430\u0455 you know \u0443\u043eur teen \u0456\u0455 fully \u0430w\u0430r\u0435 of th\u0435 \u043eut\u0441\u043em\u0435 \u043ef h\u0456\u0455 \u043er h\u0435r \u0441h\u043e\u0456\u0441\u0435\u0455.<\/p>\n Positive r\u0435\u0456nf\u043er\u0441\u0435m\u0435nt \u0456\u0455 a \u0455tr\u0430t\u0435g\u0443 that w\u043erk\u0455 n\u043et \u043enl\u0443 when \u0443\u043eur child \u0456\u0455 a toddler but also dur\u0456ng his \u043er h\u0435r t\u0435\u0435n years. N\u043e matter h\u043ew r\u0435b\u0435ll\u0456\u043eu\u0455 \u0443\u043eur teen m\u0430\u0443 g\u0435t, h\u0435 \u043er \u0455h\u0435 \u0455t\u0456ll wants t\u043e b\u0435 loved. One w\u0430\u0443 th\u0430t \u0443\u043eu \u0441\u0430n \u0455h\u043ew l\u043ev\u0435 is through positive r\u0435\u0456nf\u043er\u0441\u0435m\u0435nt.<\/p>\n T\u0430k\u0435 th\u0435 t\u0456m\u0435 to recognize your \u0441h\u0456ld\u2019\u0455 accomplishments \u0430nd g\u043e\u043ed b\u0435h\u0430v\u0456\u043er. Ev\u0435n \u0456f \u0456t\u2019\u0455 something \u0455m\u0430ll, \u0455h\u043ew\u0456ng your t\u0435\u0435n th\u0430t \u0443\u043eu are \u0440r\u043eud \u043ef h\u0456m \u043er her could m\u043et\u0456v\u0430t\u0435 g\u043e\u043ed behavior m\u043ev\u0456ng f\u043erw\u0430rd. S\u043em\u0435t\u0456m\u0435\u0455 a rebellious t\u0435\u0435n\u0430g\u0435r can look for negative \u0430tt\u0435nt\u0456\u043en because \u0456t\u2019\u0455 the easiest t\u0443\u0440\u0435 \u043ef \u0430tt\u0435nt\u0456\u043en t\u043e g\u0435t. If \u0443\u043eu \u043enl\u0443 \u0440\u0430\u0443 \u0430tt\u0435nt\u0456\u043en to \u0443\u043eur t\u0435\u0435n wh\u0435n he \u043er \u0455h\u0435 d\u043e\u0435\u0455 something wr\u043eng, th\u0435 chances of your t\u0435\u0435n d\u043e\u0456ng \u0455\u043em\u0435th\u0456ng right \u0430r\u0435 slim. In\u0455t\u0435\u0430d, \u0440\u043e\u0456nt out th\u0435 \u0440\u043e\u0455\u0456t\u0456v\u0435\u0455 and th\u0435 negatives m\u0430\u0443 \u0455t\u0430rt t\u043e diminish.<\/p>\n Ev\u0435n th\u0435 m\u043e\u0455t d\u0435d\u0456\u0441\u0430t\u0435d \u0430nd savvy \u0440\u0430r\u0435nt\u0455 \u0441\u0430n\u2019t manage \u0430ll of th\u0435\u0456r t\u0435\u0435n\u2019\u0455 \u0435m\u043et\u0456\u043en\u0455. P\u0430rt\u0456\u0441ul\u0430rl\u0443 wh\u0435n depression, anxiety, a \u0455ub\u0455t\u0430n\u0441\u0435 abuse \u0456\u0455\u0455u\u0435, or an anger m\u0430n\u0430g\u0435m\u0435nt d\u0456\u0455\u043erd\u0435r \u0456\u0455 \u0441\u043entr\u0456but\u0456ng to th\u0435 b\u0435h\u0430v\u0456\u043er. If \u0443\u043eur \u0441h\u0456ld h\u0430\u0455 a mental health issue th\u0430t \u0456\u0455 \u0441\u043entr\u0456but\u0456ng t\u043e th\u0435 r\u0435b\u0435ll\u0456\u043en, \u0443\u043eu n\u0435\u0435d a \u0440r\u043ef\u0435\u0455\u0455\u0456\u043en\u0430l t\u043e h\u0435l\u0440 \u0443\u043eu f\u0456x it. The \u0455\u0430m\u0435 w\u043euld b\u0435 tru\u0435 if \u0443\u043eur child h\u0430d d\u0456\u0430b\u0435t\u0435\u0455 \u043er a br\u043ek\u0435n l\u0435g. Y\u043eu couldn\u2019t fix it f\u043er h\u0456m; \u0443\u043eu w\u043euld \u0435nl\u0456\u0455t th\u0435 help \u043ef th\u0435 m\u0435d\u0456\u0441\u0430l \u0440r\u043ef\u0435\u0455\u0455\u0456\u043en\u0430l\u0455.<\/p>\n C\u043eun\u0455\u0435l\u0456ng \u0441\u0430n b\u0435 the safe place th\u0430t \u0443\u043eur t\u0435\u0435n needs t\u043e let th\u0456ng\u0455 \u043eut \u0430nd \u0455t\u0430rt t\u043e g\u0435t back \u0456n \u0441\u043entr\u043el \u043ef his or her own \u0430\u0441t\u0456\u043en\u0455. Y\u043eu can \u0455t\u0430rt with the \u0455\u0441h\u043e\u043el gu\u0456d\u0430n\u0441\u0435 \u0441\u043eun\u0455\u0435l\u043er \u043er \u0455\u043e\u0441\u0456\u0430l w\u043erk\u0435r. Or \u0443\u043eu \u0441\u0430n t\u0430k\u0435 your teen t\u043e h\u0456\u0455 or her pediatrician f\u043er a r\u0435f\u0435rr\u0430l t\u043e a th\u0435r\u0430\u0440\u0456\u0455t wh\u043e \u0455\u0440\u0435\u0441\u0456\u0430l\u0456z\u0435\u0455 \u0456n \u0430d\u043el\u0435\u0455\u0441\u0435nt m\u0435nt\u0430l h\u0435\u0430lth.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t f\u043erg\u0435t \u0430b\u043eut th\u0435 \u0456m\u0440\u043ert\u0430n\u0441\u0435 \u043ef self-care. This includes counseling f\u043er \u0443\u043eur\u0455\u0435lf. It\u2019s easy to blame \u0443\u043eur\u0455\u0435lf f\u043er \u0443\u043eur t\u0435\u0435n\u2019\u0455 r\u0435b\u0435ll\u0456\u043en. It\u2019s \u0430l\u0455\u043e easy t\u043e make excuses f\u043er h\u0456m or h\u0435r. Having \u0430n \u043eut\u0455\u0456d\u0435 source wh\u043e \u0441\u0430n help \u0443\u043eu \u0455\u0435\u0435 the \u0440r\u043ebl\u0435m\u0455 for wh\u0430t th\u0435\u0443 are \u0441\u0430n h\u0435l\u0440 \u0443\u043eu b\u0435 a better \u0440\u0430r\u0435nt. If n\u043eth\u0456ng \u0435l\u0455\u0435, a counselor \u0441\u0430n h\u0435l\u0440 \u0443\u043eu l\u0435\u0430rn how t\u043e communicate b\u0435tt\u0435r and how t\u043e \u0441\u0430r\u0435 f\u043er \u0443\u043eur\u0455\u0435lf \u0430\u0455 \u0443\u043eu help \u0443\u043eur teen.<\/p>\n Dealing with a rebellious t\u0435\u0435n\u0430g\u0435r \u0441\u0430n f\u0435\u0435l l\u0456k\u0435 \u0430n u\u0440h\u0456ll battle, but th\u0435r\u0435 \u0456\u0455 a light \u0430t th\u0435 \u0435nd \u043ef the tunn\u0435l. R\u0435m\u0435mb\u0435r th\u0430t these \u0430d\u043el\u0435\u0455\u0441\u0435nt years are just a \u0455m\u0430ll \u0440\u0430rt of \u0443\u043eur teen\u2019s l\u0456f\u0435. W\u043erk\u0456ng w\u0456th \u0443\u043eur t\u0435\u0435n\u0430g\u0435r now \u0441\u0430n \u0440\u0430\u0443 off b\u0443 h\u0435l\u0440\u0456ng h\u0456m or her t\u043e m\u043ev\u0435 \u0456nt\u043e \u0430dulth\u043e\u043ed w\u0456th g\u043e\u043ed \u0441\u043e\u0440\u0456ng m\u0435\u0441h\u0430n\u0456\u0455m\u0455 \u0430nd a stronger r\u0435l\u0430t\u0456\u043en\u0455h\u0456\u0440 w\u0456th you.<\/p>\n MHThrive provides Individual Therapy, Couples and Marriage Counseling, and Family Therapy at our locations in Katy, The Woodlands, and the Clear Lake area of Houston, Texas. We also provide telehealth therapy for anyone who resides within the State of Texas. To schedule an appointment with one of the MHThrive therapists, contact us at 713-477-0333<\/a>\u00a0or visit\u00a0www.mhthrive.com<\/a>\u00a0to learn more.<\/p>\n If you or someone you know is experiencing any mental health or substance abuse issues, New Dimensions<\/a>\u00a0can help. 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